Psychotherapists: If I do not have any suitable times for you or you would prefer to see a female therapist then you may want to contact these therapists. I work with them and and I am happy to recommend them to you: Elisabeth Davies in Hanwell W7 Heather Sime in Hanwell W7 Dianne Barton in Ealing W5 Judy McGlashan in West Ealing W13 Lara Hickey-Webb in Guilford Surrey
Difficult Conversations and Arguments A useful book to help think about styles of communicating. If you are asking - Why am I having a particular kind of conversation that leaves me feeling upset or dissatisfied? then take a look at this book. An easy read to support you look at some difficult situations. Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most
Supervision This book outlines how I work in supervision and has become one of the standard text books on the subject. A must for all counsellors. Supervision in the Helping Professions
Martin Seligman has done a lot of research on happiness and his book is worth a read. A few simple tips can be a found in the pdf - click for some simple but effective activities. So much material on the web - the happiness project.
Partners in trouble
This book aims to help couples break free of old patterns of behaviour and avoid using words as weapons when the going gets tough. Encourages upfront discussion rather than resorting to nagging, and to bring discussion rather than confrontation back into your relationship. Relate Stop Arguing, Start Talking: The 10 Point Plan for Couples in Conflict